MONTHLY MESSAGE: “Celebrating Lives Well Lived”
Elmer Cole Case, 80
I went to Oregon at the end of February for my Dad's 80th birthday. My sister and brothers and I had arranged for a party with family and close friends at one of his favorite restaurants. We gathered together to celebrate 80 years of life well-lived and looking forward to another decade or two... especially with our family history of longevity.
We had a such great time. Especially memorable was when everyone had a chance to share a favorite memory or two. Then we played "How well do you know Elmer?" (Yes, that is really my Dad's name. He was named after a Scandinavian friend of his father's.) My Dad's answers usually meant a story or two as well as the answer.
As I listened to the stories, I was filled with awe, wonder, pride and joy at the fullness of my Dad's life: growing up during the Great Depression; hiking, camping, hunting as a boy with his family; working in the shipyards after school during the Second World War, then being called to service first in the Navy, then the Army. After that: college, marriage, four children, work career in state government service (retired at 55 after 33 years), military and reserve service for 40 years. Seeing four children grow to adulthood -- one who is developmentally disabled, three others who are all self-employed and own their own businesses; seeing a wife through mental illness and physical illness for 30 years of their 40 years together until her death. Continuing a tradition of the love of the outdoors with his own children to this day and with the second woman he has loved in his life and who he has been with for 14 years. Continuing to grow and change and become wiser with each passing year. Continuing to travel to new places with his partner, Nadine, and living a full life. A life well-lived... thank you, Dad!
Linda Tilton (1950?-2007)
Linda was the director of the New York Open Center's Wellness Department. She was instrumental in getting Reiki into the Open Center in the face of initial resistance of having "flaky Reiki" as one of NYOC's professional certificate programs. She actively supported it with her Sagittarian fire, especially during the first couple of years, until the program (and Reiki) proved itself.
Over the years Linda and I became friends, and my greatest pleasure was listening to her stories: stories about her growing up in upstate NY, and her professional dance career; stories about her career in the cosmetics industry, and her healing school with Elizabeth Stratton. I especially appreciated the stories in which she shared her insights on the chakras and the energy field from her work as a healer. But most of all I loved hearing the stories of her travels with Grandmother Kitty and the wisdom teachings that were passed on to her. For several years I had been trying to sponsor workshops so she could pass on those teachings... but it was not meant to be.
Linda passed on March 13, 2007 after a life well-lived and filled with the fullness of experience. I miss you, Linda: colleague, friend, healer, storyteller, holder of wisdom.
Blessings,
Margaret Ann